Word study · Greek

phileō

to love, to have affection for

Say it: fil-EH-oh (approximate)

φιλέω

What it means

To love as a friend, to have affection for, to like, and also to kiss. In John 21:15-17 Jesus asks Peter "Do you love (agapaō) me?" twice, and then "Do you love (phileō) me?" while Peter always answers with phileō. Many scholars think the two verbs are interchangeable in John, but some read the shift as meaningful.

Open question Debated

Whether the change between agapaō and phileō in John 21 carries a meaning is debated; many scholars read them as synonyms.

Range of meaning

  • Love as a friendHave affection.
  • KissGreet with a kiss.

In John

  • Chapter 21

    "You know that I have affection for you" (21:15-17).